Today’s Topic Of Spice It Up Conversation: PDA
How do you and your significant show each other love? Is it ONLY behind closed doors or do you dip into a little bit of PDA every now and then? Personally, I am not huge info PDA but I do think it is necessary sometimes! We all want to feel loved and appreciated in public sometimes — it gives us some type of arousal. And the same goes for men! If you show your man affection in public, I guarantee he will show it back 10x and certainly spice things up in the bedroom!
Now, when I say “PDA” I don’t automatically mean let’s make out in public (although I kind of mean that too), it could mean something as small as making your Facebook status “In a Relationship”.
Spice It Up Story time!
My friend.. lets name her Mary.. told me this story about her PDA and I thought I would share with you all!
So Mary and her boyfriend had been in a disagreement, it wasn’t a huge fight but it was big enough where neither of them really wanted to talk to one another. Mary knew that this fight was so insignificant that it was actually pointless to allow it to get in the way of their relationship. Now ladies — I KNOW this happens to all of us. Those stupid pesky little fights that literally have no point and they should have never started in the first place. Anyway, so Mary decided to take things into her own hands and make things right with her man. Now before I tell you all what she did let me start by saying — not everyone can do what Mary did due to logistics in the work environment (haha) BUT you can certainly try.
So it was a rainy day and Mary’s boyfriend was at work, it was going to be a long shift and she knew she wouldn’t get to talk with him to straighten anything out until much later in the evening. That just wasn’t going to work for Mary’s personality, she needed resolution immediately. She put on her sexiest black lace teddy, knee high black heeled boots, with a trench coat over top and got into her car venturing to her mans job.
Remember, Mary knew he would be able to come out to the car AND she knew he would be able to take a break for a little while. She was very familiar with the area and knew where there were some secluded spots.
So, Mary got to her mans place of employment and lured him out to a secluded spot in the back. When he got into the car she took her trench coat off and he was speechless. She told him to just sit back and relax **if you know what I mean**
Now, ladies, this is an extreme case of PDA, and it really wasn’t super “public” because no one saw. BUT I can imagine the thrill of getting caught made things that much sexier!
Moral of the story – give your man a little surprise every now and then, I promise you won’t regret it 😉