Happy Hump Day my Boudie Babes!

Let’s be honest, at some point or another, we all look for tips and tricks on how to spice up your sex life. I also think that sometimes we’re afraid or ashamed of what people will think if we bring up conversation about our sexual thoughts and fantasies, so we just keep to ourselves and never act on those thoughts. Keeping that in mind, I decided to do something kind of fun and intriguing over the next few weeks (or until I run out of sexy ideas)! Once a week i’ll be posting a new volume of my Spice It up series where I will be giving different ideas on how you can spice things up in (or out) of the bedroom with your lover. Don’t worry if you’re not into my thoughts or suggestions, they are simply that — thoughts and suggestions. I will also incorporate some stories, because who does love a story!

I think for the first post, I will keep things relatively PG-13 and stay along the lines of Boudoir – because, the obvious!

I’m talking about wearing that sexy lingerie that is sitting in the back of your closet for your man on the reg! I am so guilty of buying lingerie thinking i’m going to wear it all the time and then NEVER taking it out of the closet. And that stuff is not cheap! If you have already done a boudoir shoot, then you too most likely purchased some amazing pieces but how often do you wear them? I have at least 6 pieces sitting in the back of the closet collecting dust as I type this.

Ladies, put it to use whenever you can, I PROMISE it will spice things up. I used to have the mindset “why am I going to go through all that trouble when its just going to come off in 2.4 seconds?” Well, i’m telling you now, its so worth it!

Here is a scenario for you — If you have the opportunity, get home from work before you man and make him a really nice romantic dinner. Just before he gets home, make sure dinner is almost ready and go slip into something you know drives him crazy. When he walks in through the door, be waiting in your lingerie with the delicious dinner smells throughout the house. Make him eat dinner with you, in your lingerie, before moving onto any extracurricular activities. Making him wait will build up the tension, and will make the sex that much better! When all is said and done, bring out some real dessert to share.

Now, there is no reason you HAVE to wait, there have been multiple times that I have put some lingerie and some high boots and been waiting to get busy the minute he walks through the door. But it sure is a bit more fun to watch him struggle to keep it together 😉

— xoxo

If you have any thoughts or suggestions on how YOU spice things up, shoot me an email @ Meghan@MirroredImages.net