5 reasons to do a couples boudoir session
Couples boudoir is awesome. The End.
Just kidding... it's not the end! While the pictures speak for themselves, I will never be a "one liner" kinda gal so I am going to tell you WHY it's awesome.
- Celebrate your love: regardless of your age, gender, sexual preference, shape, marital status or anything else a couples boudoir session is for you. The imagery isn't about making you look like a model, it's a celebration of EVERY.DAMN.BIT of your love. Love isn't easy, relationships aren't easy but you've made it together and your love deserves to be celebrated and documented in a sensual, sexual, and safe way that you can look back at for many years to come.
- Reconnect: it's human nature to get comfortable in a relationship. Many couples seek a session as a way to reconnect to each other.
- Explore your sexuality: as we get older our idea of intimacy may change, adding new things to your relationship can spice your sex life up in ways you can't even imagine. Surprise yourself and your partner by exploring new ways to excite each other...
- You are sexy AF together: What could your partner do for you that would speak so hard to your love language that you'd have to jump their bones right then and there? Imagine the sparks, the fire, the intensity! Now, add a fly on the wall to document all that sexiness. I'm that fly! I will guide you 100% of the way, but majority of couples boudoir sessions become candid with minimal guidance about 1/4 of the way in. I want to organically allow the romance and sparks to happen, with minor assistance.
- Awkward or amazing: AMAZING! While it may seem like it could be a super awkward situation, it doesn't stay that way. The school girl giggles are a perfect way to show off your cute and cozy side before we jump into the super sexy sets. I'm here to showcase why your love is amazing, so you get to choose if you want to be modest or risque. I will take the love and emotions of your relationship and make them come to life on my camera. Our clients often have their sessions done at airbnb's that speak to their style and I highly recommend this because it makes the session even more unique!
If you do a google search for "couples boudoir" you'll likely see a lot of fit, tattooed, model-esk people. Don't let this discourage you, as I said before an intimate boudoir session is for everyone. My personal belief for this is because photographers often use models to highlight their creativity and have rights to post the images. I very rarely post images from these sessions, even if our clients provide a full release because the intimacy is for YOU to enjoy.
There isn't a mold on who you need to be in order to do a couples session. Do you have a freak flag? Wave that shit around proudly! But, if you don't its totally fine - our sessions are all tailored to be unique to your relationship. I do my best to tell a story throughout the session, to make it flow in a realistic way that makes it easy (easier) for you to get comfortable and bare it all. It's very rare that someone (whether a single or a couples session) walks into the studio ready to strip down. It's a vulnerable process and I would never want to NOT show that vulnerability - that is part of what makes this a beautiful experience!
I thoroughly believe the most important way to prepare for a couples session is to offer these sessions to existing clients. Having a foundation consisting of trust, faith and experience is necessary to creating the right environment for your couples session. After a woman see's the finished product of her private session she develops a form of confidence that is brought over to the couples boudoir which cannot be coached or guided!
For the month of August we are offering $200 off your couples session, all sessions must be booked by August 31, 2019 and must occur prior to December 31, 2019. Want to get a killer deal on a private solo sesh? Check out these offers, which expire on August 15!
If you've already had a session with us - lets get you on the books for a couples session now! If you are considering a couples session and haven't worked with us yet, contact me to schedule your private boudoir session!
I am the Champion!
"I am invincible, unbreakable
Unstoppable, unshakeable
They knock me down, I get up again
I am the champion, you’re gon’ know my name
You can’t hurt me now, I can’t feel the pain
I was made for this, yeah, I was born to win
I am the champion"
-- Carrie Underwood
New Year's Resolutions
Can you all believe that we are officially two weeks into 2018? Even though we are well into the New Year, I know there are some of us out there still trying to figure out what our New Year's Resolutions will be.
Naughty Holiday Drink Recipes
One of the first phrases that comes to mind when you think of the Holidays is "Have you been Naughty or Nice?" When we were young, being naughty was negative because Santa wasn't going to bring you any presents. As we have gotten older being naughty has become more and more fun - yes, you ladies know what i'm sayin'!
Toys For Your Sexy Holiday List
Ladies! I know we have all thought about them at one time or another -- TOYS!
Who says the kids are the only ones who can have toys on their gift list? With the Holidays coming up why not splurge a little on yourself and get yourself a more adult version of the traditional wish list item. I have compiled a list of the top 10 sexy toys to ask for this Holiday season.
Date Night Ideas
How often do you find yourself wanting a date night but just cant figure out what to do? I know I know, the men are supposed to plan date nights, right? Although it's always nice to be taken on a surprise date every now and again, we too can plan those sexy nights out with our lover!
Which Thanksgiving Foods Are Aphrodisiacs?
It may seem absurd to some of you to already be thinking about this but I just purchased my plane tickets home for the Thanksgiving holiday and I immediately went into turkey and mashed potato mind mode. But seriously ladies -- its October 18! We have about a month before some of us start cooking for our Thanksgiving feast.
With Thanksgiving quickly approaching and sex on my mind (because, when is sex not on my mind), I thought to myself, how can these two things be related? Well here it is! All of your questions answered! Did you know that many of the traditional foods and ingredients we use at Thanksgiving have aphrodisiac properties? That explains a lot thinking back to all of those food coma moments sitting on the couch but STILL craving a little "dessert" huh?
Check out the list below and make sure you gather all of the right ingredients for your pantry!
Rosemary
Pumpkins
Cranberries
Nutmeg & Cinnamon
Celery
-- xoxo
Feel Beautiful Naked.
I don't know about you but when I feel good about myself, everyone knows it! I'm all about being naked, romping around my house and being extra sexy for my man. It's the same scenario for when I DON'T feel sexy. my sex life is much more dismal, I don't want to show anyone my body (even my man, who loved me no matter what) because i'm too worried about what's jiggling around and the angles, oh man the angles. Have you ever tried to find an angle you look good at when you don't feel good about yourself? Feeling confident and beautiful about the way you look is an intricate part of our self-esteem and our sex life.
Spice It Up Vol 2
Today's Topic Of Spice It Up Conversation: PDA
How do you and your significant show each other love? Is it ONLY behind closed doors or do you dip into a little bit of PDA every now and then? Personally, I am not huge info PDA but I do think it is necessary sometimes! We all want to feel loved and appreciated in public sometimes -- it gives us some type of arousal. And the same goes for men! If you show your man affection in public, I guarantee he will show it back 10x and certainly spice things up in the bedroom!
Now, when I say "PDA" I don't automatically mean let's make out in public (although I kind of mean that too), it could mean something as small as making your Facebook status "In a Relationship".
Spice It Up Story time!
My friend.. lets name her Mary.. told me this story about her PDA and I thought I would share with you all!
So Mary and her boyfriend had been in a disagreement, it wasn't a huge fight but it was big enough where neither of them really wanted to talk to one another. Mary knew that this fight was so insignificant that it was actually pointless to allow it to get in the way of their relationship. Now ladies -- I KNOW this happens to all of us. Those stupid pesky little fights that literally have no point and they should have never started in the first place. Anyway, so Mary decided to take things into her own hands and make things right with her man. Now before I tell you all what she did let me start by saying -- not everyone can do what Mary did due to logistics in the work environment (haha) BUT you can certainly try.
So it was a rainy day and Mary's boyfriend was at work, it was going to be a long shift and she knew she wouldn't get to talk with him to straighten anything out until much later in the evening. That just wasn't going to work for Mary's personality, she needed resolution immediately. She put on her sexiest black lace teddy, knee high black heeled boots, with a trench coat over top and got into her car venturing to her mans job.
Remember, Mary knew he would be able to come out to the car AND she knew he would be able to take a break for a little while. She was very familiar with the area and knew where there were some secluded spots.
So, Mary got to her mans place of employment and lured him out to a secluded spot in the back. When he got into the car she took her trench coat off and he was speechless. She told him to just sit back and relax **if you know what I mean**
Now, ladies, this is an extreme case of PDA, and it really wasn't super "public" because no one saw. BUT I can imagine the thrill of getting caught made things that much sexier!
Moral of the story - give your man a little surprise every now and then, I promise you won't regret it ;)
xoxo